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Heading towards 'normality'

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Zsababy
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Heading towards 'normality'

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I don't know if this is premature, but I think I may be getting closer to normal functioning. I still fantasize, especially sexual, but I'm starting to put my energy into other things, like studying French, with the goal of becoming fluent in a several years (it's going to be tough)
And possibly doing creative collaborations with my old art buddies, which is a hugely meaningful thing in my life, even if they are amateur. The main thing is to not compare them to my LOs accomplishments &/or fantasize that it puts me in his league (I haven't gotten delusional like that, but my fantasies can get carried away).

Also, with my new therapist, I feel like I'm making headway into managing my affairs better, thus feeling less hopeless about my situation, which makes me ripe for getting lost in escapist fantasies.

So I do still check his Twitter & comment occasionally & check if he likes them (he likes everybody's) but I'm not getting the intense euphoria like I did last year. It feels more like a background activity & not the focus of my day, which was unhealthy & kinda sad.

Baby steps moving forward.
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