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vesseloflight
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Welcome to the forum VoL. Have a look around, and join in on others threads is always helpful. I wonder if you're caregiver/s were toxic and you were trying to duplicate this type of relationship by seeking validation from someone toxic? A re-do if you like. Anyway, something I'm sure you've discussed with your T.

Sorry to hear you were emotionally entangled with another. It's always good to look at ourselves and our behavior and reflect upon it so as not to repeat old patterns. Again welcome!
"And in the end, we were all just humans…Drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness." ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald
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Thank you for the reply. Looking at myself and my behavior and patterns is the journey. I don't want to repeat these toxic patterns
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It must be difficult blocking someone you have a lot of history with. Hang in there! You've got us to bounce ideas off of or just vent. We get you.
"And in the end, we were all just humans…Drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness." ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald
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Welcome and glad you found the courage to finally come out. There is a lot of wisdom on these posts and I look forward to reading more about your own story.

Also your story reminds me why inter-gender friendships for straight people already in a monogamous relationship are not a good idea.
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Welcome to the forum.I hope you find peace here,I know I have.
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This site is a source of truth and wisdom. Thank you.
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