Was it limerence? Please help me understand

[sara_bubamara77]

Hi I wanted to writw a post. Can someone tell me if i can write a post here, i am new here

[L-F]

Hi I wanted to writw a post. Can someone tell me if i can write a post here, i am new here

You mean start a thread? As in a new topic to introduce yourself? yes you can! Welcome to the btw.

[BabyKhloee]

I definitely can see that this pattern happens often in my life. My low confidence and low self esteem have negative impact on my relationships. Usually at the very beginning I feel good, confident and „in control” of a situation. Then I start to doubt myself or the person starts to act differently and I lose my confidence which probably makes my energy more needy and seeking validation. Rejection only makes me feel worse and kind of makes me feel even more sure of the fact that I wasnt good enough in the first place. It’s the same cycle over and over again.

Whenever I can keep my confidence and self esteem high I am not questioning myself and my energy must be more attractive cause strangers or people I date are more attracted to me then. The problem is that I can’t keep this for long.