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Hi. It’s so insane how we limerents have so many of the same thought processes & patterns. One thing that I have always struggled with is knowing what is reality & what is not? Is he mad at me for LC or is he disinterested or is he just living his life? I’ve been in a mess with a coworker fo...

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I have a lot of the same feelings. This current episode for me has been about 7 years. In that time it has stolen so much from me in terms of peace and happy memories. I will also never leave my SO. Just want you to know you are not alone.

I have been stuck in this current LE for years. There was mutual disclosure 2 years ago & we (mostly me) decided not to act on it & just be friends. This is a coworker, close friend, and we share an office. We see each other every day, text, talk about everything, eat lunch together every da...

Thank you for the kind words, L-F, as usual. I really think it’s time for me to go to therapy. I think some objective, real-time feedback on the thoughts would help me.

Cookie: thank you for the feedback & I agree with you. But for some sick, twisted reason it makes me happy that you think he is playing games. Maybe I am getting dopamine hits from the attention. Maybe as L-F posted I’m addicted to emotional pain. Maybe this anxious rollercoaster of limerence is...

My situation continues with no good resolution in sight. Things lately had been going great with my LO....the feelings have been manageable & we have been able to keep it platonic. Of course COVID has us stressed out. We are teachers with an adjoining classes who share an office space. A few det...

Maybe you should divorce & start over fresh? Your husband does not sound stable or like a good partner. I agree therapy will be tremendously beneficial for you. Let the temp go & focus on you to determine your next course of action...with or without your SO. Best of luck to you.

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