Here is a list of books that I found useful when dealing with my own limerence:
Relationships, love and limerence:
Love and Limerence - Dorothy Tenov - has to be top of the list for any limerent
Love and Limerence: Harness the Limbicbrain - Dr Lynn Willmott - an updated version of Tenov's book
Hold me Tight - Sue Johnson
Intimacy and Desire - Dr. David Schnarch
Awaken the passion in your relationship Passionate Marriage - keeping love and intimacy alive in committed relationships Dr. David Schnarch
Addiction to Love, The Art of Changing, Where Love Abides, and Recovery Workbook for Love Addicts and Love Avoidants: Introducing the Ambivalent Love Addict, all by Susan Peabody
Obsessive love - when it hurts too much too let go - Susan Forward
I love you but im not in love with you - Andrew Marshall
Getting the love you want - Harville Hendrix
The book of love - David Delvin the Art of Love -Erich Frohm
The concious heart - Kathlyn and Guy hendrix
Radical honesty and radical parenting - Brad Blanton
Mating in captivity - sex, lies and domestic bliss - Esther Perel
The Erotic mind 5 steps to romantic love - Jack Morin,
Fall in love, stay in love - Willard Harley
Surviving an affair, Willard Harley
Love busters - Willard Harley
Effective Marriage Counselling - Willard Harley
When your sex drives don't match - Sandra Pertot
His needs, Her needs -Willard Harley
A general theory of love - Thomas Lewis
The Eden Project - in search of the magical others - James Hollis
Confusing love with obsession - John Moore
Falling in love - why we choose the lovers we choose
The 5 love languages Gary Chapman
Not just friends - Shirley Glass
Woman who love too much - Robin Norwood
The fantasy bond - Robert Firestone
Misc Books
Boundaries and relationships - Charles Whitfield
Narcicism - Denial of the true self - Alexander Lowen
Creating the capacity for attachment - treating addictions and the alienated self-
Games people play - Eric Behrne
Toxic parents - Susan Forward
Homecoming -the inner child - John Bradshaw
Adult children - the secrets of dysfunctional families - John Friel
The Willpower Instinct - Kelly McGonigal
The Power of Habit - Charles Duhigg
Co-dependency
Facing co-dependence What it is, where it comes from, how it sabotages our lives - Pia Melody
Love addiction - Pia Mellody
Co-dependent no more - Melody Beatie
Choices - Melody Beatie
The intimacy factor - Pia melody
Mid-life crises
The Middle passage, from misery to meaning in midlife - James Hollis
Male related books
Crossing the Soul's River, A rite of passage for men - William Roberts
Iron John - John Blye
Absent fathers, lost sons - Guy Corneau
The Flying boy - Healing the wounded man - John Lee
The married man's sex life primer - Athol Kay
Female related books
Running with wolves
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