Anyone scared of their LO finding out you are on here?

[L-F]

Personally, I would find it titillating. Nothing more exciting than the cat-and-mouse game!

I know my husband would benefit and he certainly wouldn't complain.

I'm not encouraging the 'dance', I'm self-aware enough to know what I'm getting into, as well as talking it through with hubby... so no secrets there. But the flirty games, oh my!

[QQs]

Titillating? No for me. They hate me. It's also hard to turn my back on all that's here, when I'm feeling ready to unpack my narcissism. Do I pay and open up Pandora's box? It's a consent concern....like, if they know I'm here they can hide whatever they might want to. Similarly, I'd likely make a different account before I head in, if I head in.

Flirty games sounds awful. I know what I don't want to get into!

[yoguisan]

I'm not, because:
1 - it is extremely unlikely
2 - I disclosed to her (and she didn't read it), so I kind of wish for that to happen

I should be afraid that my SO finds out, however. Which I'm really not

[HelpWithGOLO]

I'm not. I hope she's doing well and not going through these mind games I'm torturing myself with. I hate the idea of her being with her man but I'd rather see her happily married to someone who loves her than for her to be alone and sad. I don't know what I would do if she were on here and contacted me. I almost said her name on one of my early posts but I held back just in case. But if it meant I could talk to her again, that might be nice. I am afraid of my SO finding out that I'm on here. I only get on here to post when she's occupied elsewhere or asleep or at work. I don't think she would get mad but I still don't know how or if to tell her about my LE.

[fup]

Yup! The idea alone terrifies me. And I’m super paranoid so it has crossed my mind more than once. However I find it very unlikely