It must be a hugely difficult time for you. Sorry to hear of your recent loss. Do you have a therapist or good a support network surrounding you?
Sending good thoughts and wishes your way while you navigate this challenging time.
It must be a hugely difficult time for you. Sorry to hear of your recent loss. Do you have a therapist or good a support network surrounding you?
Genuine love doesn't include negative emotions such as jealousy or feelings such as anxiousness even if you are not together. Genuine love is being happy for someone else's welfare & well-being, fortune, and fame regardless of being united. Genuine love supports another person to be their best.yoguisan wrote: ↑Thu Oct 26, 2023 2:47 pm L-F, I kind of disagree with the statement that there's no genuine love for a LO because the current LE I'm having involves an ex who I was and still am pretty sure I am very much in love with (though I really don't recall being limerent for her while we were together), and even when not in an LE I did miss her, it just wasn't so overwhelming as it is now. Though I have to agree that limerence has much more to do with obsession than with feelings; LO is like a drug.
Good pointSignificant other wrote: ↑Thu Oct 26, 2023 4:45 pm If those encounters or conversations whith,and feelings to,LO are secret from their SO, I would say that is disloyalty, emotional infidelity, unless you are an open couple.
In my case it does; I've always felt jealous of any and every girlfriend I ever had, and my wife is no exception. Sure, this stems a lot from my sense of inadequacy and low self esteem, but I can't help it. I've learned not to let it cloud my judgement, but I can't avoid feeling it no matter what. Hearing my wife compliment some dude over his looks still frustrates me a lot.Genuine love doesn't include negative emotions such as jealousy or feelings such as anxiousness even if you are not together
Sure you can. You're here for a start.
Hey yoguisan, came across this and thought about you... How are you going?yoguisan wrote: ↑Sun Oct 29, 2023 1:23 am In my case it does; I've always felt jealous of any and every girlfriend I ever had, and my wife is no exception. Sure, this stems a lot from my sense of inadequacy and low self esteem, but I can't help it. I've learned not to let it cloud my judgement, but I can't avoid feeling it no matter what.
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