That's interesting JT, I wonder how many LO's think the same.JupiterTaco wrote: ↑Thu Feb 29, 2024 7:32 pm I was always terrified of people thinking I was interested in them when I wasn't really.
That little part of ourselves that likes being flirted with by the same gender (or even opposite gender), that part of self that entertained and/or enjoyed the mixed signals, that's where we will find our answers. I completely understand feeling angry or annoyed at LO playing their part, and I completely understand wanting to blame them, however, none of it is something we can fix or change [I'm referring to LO and/or the past ].
All very confusing when it comes to sexuality and to upbringing, societal norms/narratives, etc. Limerence is enough to battle on it's own.