Open forum ... what's on your mind? Want to vent or lament about your Limerent/Love Object? This is the ideal place.
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If you were sat on your own with LO and you could ask them just one question only. What would it be?
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I’ll bite; inthe early stage of this latest LE I would have asked her “did you feelt it too?”. There was a party that we were supposedly to meet but never happened, but between the flirting and body language and eye contact I was convinced that she was feeling the same way.
LO- married 48,work colleagues
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Same. I know his feelings were stronger at the beginning. Maybe not full blown attraction (I’m older and not his physical type) but definitely a real attraction all the same. Now it’s backed down to friendship. We have a good friendship and I definitely still think he likes me but not in the original way. There are no more long hugs for example...
Although I’m sure, if I asked him now, he’d deny it, I’d love to have the true answer to how did he feel back then....
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Why didn't you help me out of this friggen thing called limerence since you have suffered it too!
(She knew the ins and outs and told me she had suffered what I was, at the time, suffering from, but did she help me? Nooooo!)
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What were you thinking when you talked to me so much and encouraged me to be so vulnerable?
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Probably, "How are things?". I'm so bored with LE, I wouldn't want to ask anything personal or start a serious conversation at this point.
If it were guaranteed that we'd both forget the conversation within 24 hours, I would be willing to ask if he knew I had feelings for him. I'm curious about that and I wonder if that's why he'd be friendly with me sometimes and then sometimes act indifferent.
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