I'd probably do the same thing, but it would depend on the circumstances to some degree. I'll almost never hang up on one conversation to answer another, unless I know it's likely to be a priority call or I was wanting to hang up anyway.Hopeless Lomantic wrote: ↑Thu Sep 12, 2019 2:17 pmYes the call dismissal is shitty but that was such a knee jerk reaction that upon reflecting, it somewhat shows who is more important to me .. there is a definite sense of guilt but if the same scenario happens I think i will still finish my call with LO before returning the call to SO.
What would u guys do ?
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Re line being crossed - I think you know it when you do it. When you don't want your SO to know what you said or did, when you keep it secret.
Your two scenarios you mention iny view could easily be fine and within normal friendship bounds but I suspect as you as asking it means a) there was some intent other than platonic friendship and b) you feel it was not ok
If I had said that to my LO would not want my SO to know - 'who are you texting at midnight, why and how come you remember her birthday and none of my family's birthday's?...
On the phone call, I am unlikely to hang up to talk to SO, I would ring her back. But that's in normal life. If on the phone to LO, I would do the same. Just like when you are writing text to LO and your SO texts.
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Oh wow, yeah -- sorry. That was about as sarcastic as it could be. It's how I've survived in dealing with a lot of this.
And is it me, or does the phrase "half-naked friendship cuddle" sound more and more awkward each time you say it?
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