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Daughter has an LO

Post by marko » Fri Jun 07, 2019 5:24 am

She's been sub teaching and a high school boy has been writing some things to her that sounds like something we'd write. He definitely is seeking attention and his desperate attempts and self sabotage makes me quite sad. Thankfully the year is done and she doesn't live too close. We all know the torture of pining and silly attempts to be seen and heard. She know nothing of LE, but told her crushes occur and he's stuck in his painful adolescent world and told her to expect such things. She understands his need for validation and love at the basis for this, and I hope he finds his way and doesn't end up here. Certainly can empathize with the both of them.

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Re: Daughter has an LO

Post by Idiotic » Fri Jun 07, 2019 6:24 am

IMO all crushes during teenage are like LE. At Least they were for me :-?? And most I knew
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Re: Daughter has an LO

Post by mamasita » Fri Jun 07, 2019 3:28 pm

Awww, that's rough to witness. I'm glad your daughter has you to kind of "explain" his feelings. I hope he can heal.

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Re: Daughter has an LO

Post by marko » Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:01 pm

Idiotic wrote:
Fri Jun 07, 2019 6:24 am
IMO all crushes during teenage are like LE. At Least they were for me :-?? And most I knew
And hopefully it's all it is. His pattern of avoidance and reaction to over reading her non actions are what alarm me. She really didn't notice the kid and he's concocted severe rejection from normal interactions. He feels hated, alone and extremely sad over tiny things. Sure crush like, but hauntingly familiar here as well.

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Re: Daughter has an LO

Post by daydreamer » Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:28 pm

marko, did you mean your daughter is LO and the kid is LS?
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Re: Daughter has an LO

Post by daydreamer » Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:29 pm

Idiotic wrote:
Fri Jun 07, 2019 6:24 am
IMO all crushes during teenage are like LE.
yes, because we were immature. if we have them now, well, we haven't fully matured.

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Re: Daughter has an LO

Post by marko » Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:45 pm

daydreamer wrote:
Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:28 pm
marko, did you mean your daughter is LO and the kid is LS?
No, the kid has it bad for my daughter.

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Re: Daughter has an LO

Post by marko » Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:47 pm

daydreamer wrote:
Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:29 pm
Idiotic wrote:
Fri Jun 07, 2019 6:24 am
IMO all crushes during teenage are like LE.
yes, because we were immature. if we have them now, well, we haven't fully matured.
I wanted to make a post on maturity. I feel immature with relationships, and in general so. Comes of as humor, but is kind of an avoidance reaction. I can be serious as needed, but again a mask.

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Re: Daughter has an LO

Post by daydreamer » Fri Jun 07, 2019 5:37 pm

marko wrote:
Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:45 pm
daydreamer wrote:
Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:28 pm
marko, did you mean your daughter is LO and the kid is LS?
No, the kid has it bad for my daughter.
then she is his LO alright.

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Re: Daughter has an LO

Post by Idiotic » Fri Jun 07, 2019 6:33 pm

Might be an unpopular opinion , but I feel we must go through this in our childhood, you know, dealing with rejection teaches you about life, and how to handle it when you don't get what you want . Handling feelings not reciprocated is a very important lesson, learnt over time. But yeah, keep an eye too, that is doesn't make him feel too isolated or lead to some extreme measures.
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