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FreeBird
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Re: Stupid, Lame, Crazy and other Feelings

Post by FreeBird » Wed Jan 09, 2019 2:38 am

Can'tSleep wrote:
Wed Dec 05, 2018 7:01 pm
Limerence over someone I don't even really know makes me feel like I am in 7th grade and I am pining over the cute, popular kid in class who I sit right next to but who doesn't even know I exist. I feel like the awkward teenager who tries to steal glances at my crush without them noticing because I am too insecure and have absolutely no confidence in my weird, 13-year-old self. I feel like a nervous wreck when my "crush" comes anywhere near me and I would love to talk to them but I can barely remember my name.
I was that 13 year-old and unfortunately the limertrance lasted a couple of decades on the same person. You are not alone. Hope you can get proper rest soon, Can'tSleep.
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Re: Stupid, Lame, Crazy and other Feelings

Post by Shadow » Wed Jan 09, 2019 4:03 am

I’m glad you’re feeling better. I can relate to everything you said. It really sucks.

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Re: Stupid, Lame, Crazy and other Feelings

Post by Matty5000 » Thu Jan 10, 2019 1:12 pm

I think a lot of us can relate to what you posted. Limerence has a funny way of affecting us. My mind would race, my heart would feel like it was going to shoot out of my chest. The walls felt like they were caving in and my Fight or Flight instinct would kick in. Run!! lol
Thanks for sharing and welcome to the site :)
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Re: Stupid, Lame, Crazy and other Feelings

Post by Can'tSleep » Thu Jan 10, 2019 11:40 pm

Thanks everyone! It helps to know that people can relate even though I wish you couldn't since it sucks so bad, lol. Also an update, I happened to come across a picture of my LO and his SO on the Instagram search page. I didn't click on it or anything but there it was. As I stated in a previous post I really don't have much self esteem. People tell me I'm attractive and my self-image has improved over the years. However, seeing him with his SO made me feel like a gremlin :'D :'D :'D

That is all for now.

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Re: Stupid, Lame, Crazy and other Feelings

Post by Spinnaker » Fri Jan 11, 2019 12:00 am

Facing reality is not easy. We’ve all been there.

Can'tSleep

Re: Stupid, Lame, Crazy and other Feelings

Post by Can'tSleep » Sun Jan 20, 2019 6:19 am

Saturday night musings -

Life is way too short for limerence. Like f*&k what a waste of time.
I hate this and I hate him.

But really I just hate myself.

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Re: Stupid, Lame, Crazy and other Feelings

Post by Shadow » Sun Jan 20, 2019 9:03 pm

Can'tSleep wrote:
Sun Jan 20, 2019 6:19 am
Saturday night musings -

Life is way too short for limerence. Like f*&k what a waste of time.
I hate this and I hate him.

But really I just hate myself.
You’re right. Life is too short for this bullshit. Don’t hate yourself though. It’s not your fault. I know how you feel though, as I completely despise myself. I know the feeling of hating LO too. It’s like ‘Stop invading my brain, asshole!’

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Re: Stupid, Lame, Crazy and other Feelings

Post by Can'tSleep » Sun Jan 20, 2019 9:39 pm

You’re right. Life is too short for this bullshit. Don’t hate yourself though. It’s not your fault. I know how you feel though, as I completely despise myself. I know the feeling of hating LO too. It’s like ‘Stop invading my brain, asshole!’


Yes, exactly! I often look at him and think to myself... "Why are you doing this to me???"

"What do you want from me???"

Of course I know the answer is he's not doing anything to me cause he doesn't know me from a hole in the wall. He is just existing and living his life... and he certainly doesn't want anything from me.

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