Well done Mamasita - I hope to be in your shoes soonmamasita wrote: ↑Mon Jul 16, 2018 8:39 pmI decided to stick with no contact back in October, when I joined this forum. Since that time, I have broken the NC twice and he has broken it twice. He obviously doesn't know I am trying for no contact though, so he is just "talking" rather than "breaking no contact"
I did wish him a happy birthday recently and he completely ignored me. Not a thank you, nothing. Which of course made me upset that I broke no contact just for a stupid birthday wish.
My anger with his lack of response reminded me that I only wished him a happy birthday for reciprocation.
Next year I hope that I either have NO expectations for a return "thank you" or better yet, that I don't even think about his day when it comes around. That would be better.
Sadly my NC started last monday and I broke it by Thursday and resumed NC by Friday night and going strong the last 48 hours -
It must have made you mad that you got no thank you - Im dealing with anger right now that he hasnt contacted me and its only 2 days!!!
I have a long road ahead of me