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When you’re anxiously waiting for LO to text back

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Charm
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When you’re anxiously waiting for LO to text back

Post by Charm » Sun Jul 08, 2018 10:49 pm

Try popping in a dvd or video of when you and DH/DW got married, or the first vacation you took with SO as a couple, or thr birth of your kids - anything to do with your unit, your family, your core.
Its amazing what a little reality check can do -

May not cure my limerence but it makes the anxious waiting and checking and sadness and depression over why LO hasnt sent a text, or reciprocated (even though you explicitly asked him to) be less daunting - and trust me, any little thing that helps I appreciate so I wanted to share with the rest of you who havent battled and conquered - I am still in the thick of this.
Hope it helps one or some of you too
Married female 47
LO is older married male
Attempted NC -failed 2x
LE is now over - fingers crossed!

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Re: When you’re anxiously waiting for LO to text back

Post by Spinnaker » Mon Jul 09, 2018 7:09 pm

Excellent advice! Keep posting and offering advice. I think going out to the movies is the best distraction. With every tragedy in my life movies were the only place I could definitely clear my mind of sorrow.

Glad you are still staying strong!

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