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Song that Describes your LE/LO

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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by yalegirl » Sat Jun 09, 2018 5:41 pm

Some death metal piece of shit whose lyrics I can not understand.

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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by Spinnaker » Tue Jul 10, 2018 4:45 pm

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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by townshend » Thu Aug 09, 2018 4:04 am

No good has ever come from feeling guilty neither intelligence, policy, nor compassion. The guilty do not pay attention to the object but only to themselves and not even to their own interests, which might make sense, but to their anxieties. -Paul Goodman

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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by Maddie » Fri Aug 10, 2018 2:49 am



A throwback but describes my LE at the moment...
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LO, 50 , M
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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by ReeledIn » Sat Aug 18, 2018 9:08 pm

I am posting more than 1 song today - mainly for my own future reference - but some of these may resonate with other forum peeps.

So THIS song and others I am posting are actually in a new pubic playlist created on a certain music sharing app by - you guessed it - my LO himself. Given that I can't block him on the app and I just happened to see the playlist, my morbid curiosity got the best of me.

Some of the songs are just so quintessentially, jaw-droppingly (for me) incredibly "LO", and demonstrate how he keeps people (women) at arm's length and - as far as I'm concerned - has never actually loved anyone other than himself and his 2 little self-replicas.. his sons.

I view this as a peek inside the mind of a very narky lab rat. :ymdevil:

Anyway - enjoy his playlist - or pieces of it. :)








10cc – I'm Not In Love Lyrics
I'm not in love, so don't forget it
It's just a silly phase I'm going through
And just because I call you up
Don't get me wrong, don't think you've got it made
I'm not in love, no-no
(It's because...)

I like to see you, but then again
That doesn't mean you mean that much to me
So if I call you, don't make a fuss
Don't tell your friends about the two of us
I'm not in love, no-no
(It's because...)

(Be quiet, big boys don't cry)
(Big boys don't cry)
(Big boys don't cry)
(Big boys don't cry)
(Big boys don't cry)
(Big boys don't cry)
(Big boys don't cry)

I keep your picture upon the wall
It hides a nasty stain that's lyin' there
So don't you ask me to give it back
I know you know it doesn't mean that much to me
I'm not in love, no-no
(It's because...)

Ooh, you'll wait a long time for me
Ooh, you'll wait a long time

Ooh, you'll wait a long time for me
Ooh, you'll wait a long time

I'm not in love, so don't forget it
It's just a silly phase I'm going through
And just because I call you up
Don't get me wrong, don't think you've got it made, ooh

I'm not in love, I'm not in love..
Last edited by ReeledIn on Sat Aug 18, 2018 10:13 pm, edited 2 times in total.
47yo female, LO/ex PA partner is 54, single dad & coworker
LE started June 2016, PA started Dec 2016
LC began June 2017
Now reconciled with wonderful SO


For my story if interested:
http://limerence.net/forum/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=3738

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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by ReeledIn » Sat Aug 18, 2018 9:22 pm

#2 from LO's "love" playlist. And of course we all know this one.....reinforces what he has told me.. that he "gets bored with all women."
Who knows who he is "supposedly" in love with.. this could be an homage to his one "true love" who dumped him back in 2015, the only woman he ever wanted to marry - don't get me started on that.. this was the initial sob story I got.




Fooled Around And Fell In Love
Elvin Bishop

I must have been through about a million girls
I'd love 'em and I'd leave 'em alone
I didn't care how much they cried, no sir
Their tears left me cold as a stone

But then I fooled around and fell in love
I fooled around and fell in love
I fooled around and fell in love
I fooled around and fell in love

It used to be when I'd see a girl that I liked
I'd get out my book and write down her name
But when the grass got a little greener on the other side
I'd just tear out that page

But then I fooled around and fell in love
I fooled around and fell in love
Since I met you baby
I fooled around and fell in love
I fooled around and fell in love

Free, on my own that's the way I used to be
But since I met you baby love's got a hold on me
Ooh it's got a hold on me now, hey
I can't let go of you baby

I can't stop lovin' you now, hey
'Cause I fooled around, fooled around, fooled around
Fooled around, fooled around, fooled around, fell in love
Fooled around, fooled around, yes I did
Fooled around, fooled around, fooled around, I fell in love
Fooled around, fooled around, fooled around, fell in love
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47yo female, LO/ex PA partner is 54, single dad & coworker
LE started June 2016, PA started Dec 2016
LC began June 2017
Now reconciled with wonderful SO


For my story if interested:
http://limerence.net/forum/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=3738

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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by ReeledIn » Sat Aug 18, 2018 9:31 pm

#3 from LO's "love" playlist...

And another one we all know ... this reminds me of the literature on narc'ism that talks about the narc's endless search for "ideal love." It's why they put people on pedestals for a time. They don't realize there really is no such thing as "ideal love," there's only "real love." They will likely keep searching until they die.. and yes.. LO Is getting old.

I would say this is sad, but I have no sympathy, honestly. I just can't get there.





Heart of Gold
Neil Young

I wanna live,
I wanna give
I've been a miner for a heart of gold.
It's these expressions
I never give
That keep me searching for a heart of gold.

And I'm getting old.
Keep me searching for a heart of gold.

I've been to Hollywood
I've been to Redwood
I crossed the ocean for a heart of gold.
I've been in my mind,
It's such a fine line
That keeps me searching for a heart of gold.

And I'm getting old.
Keeps me searching for a heart of gold
And I'm getting old.

Keep me searching for a heart of gold.
You keep me searching and I'm growing old.
Keep me searching for a heart of gold
I've been a miner for a heart of gold.
47yo female, LO/ex PA partner is 54, single dad & coworker
LE started June 2016, PA started Dec 2016
LC began June 2017
Now reconciled with wonderful SO


For my story if interested:
http://limerence.net/forum/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=3738

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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by ReeledIn » Sat Aug 18, 2018 9:45 pm

#4 from LO's "love" playlist... I wonder if this one is for ME. :D I was singing it all last night...it's reminiscent of our affair.

I do love me some Steely Dan.






Dirty Work
Steely Dan

Times are hard
You're afraid to pay the fee
So you find yourself somebody
Who can do the job for free
When you need a bit of lovin'
Cause your man is out of town
That's the time you get me runnin'
And you know I'll be around

Chorus:
I'm a fool to do your dirty work
Oh yeah
I don't wanna do your dirty work
No more
I'm a fool to do your dirty work
Oh yeah

Light the candle
Put the lock upon the door
You have sent the maid home early
Like a thousand times before
Like the castle in it's corner
In a medieval game
I foresee terrible trouble
And I stay here just the same
47yo female, LO/ex PA partner is 54, single dad & coworker
LE started June 2016, PA started Dec 2016
LC began June 2017
Now reconciled with wonderful SO


For my story if interested:
http://limerence.net/forum/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=3738

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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by ReeledIn » Sat Aug 18, 2018 9:57 pm

#5 from LO's "love" playlist...interesting... not surprising....he really does prefer to be alone, from everything he's told me.





Ride Like the Wind
Christopher Cross

It is the night, my body's weak
I'm on the run, no time for sleep
I've got to ride, ride like the wind
To be free again

And I've got such a long way to go
(Such a long way to go)
To make it to the border of Mexico
So I'll ride like the wind
Ride like the wind

I was born the son of a lawless man
Always spoke my mind
With a gun in my hand
Lived nine lives, gunned down ten
Gonna ride like the wind

And I've got such a long way to go
(Such a long way to go)
To make it to the border of Mexico
So I'll ride like the wind, ride like the wind
Gonna ride the wind

Accused and tried and told to hang
I was nowhere in sight
When the church bells rang
Never was the kind to do as I was told
Gonna ride like the wind before I get old

It is the night, my body's weak
I'm on the run, no time for sleep
I've got to ride, ride like the wind
To be free again

And I've got such a long way to go
(Such a long way to go)
To make it to the border of Mexico
So I'll ride like the wind
Ride like the wind

And I've a long way to go
(Such a long way to go)
To make it to the border of Mexico
So I'll ride like the wind, ride like the wind
Gonna ride the wind

Ride, ride like the wind
Ride
47yo female, LO/ex PA partner is 54, single dad & coworker
LE started June 2016, PA started Dec 2016
LC began June 2017
Now reconciled with wonderful SO


For my story if interested:
http://limerence.net/forum/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=3738

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Re: Song that Describes your LE/LO

Post by townshend » Thu Aug 23, 2018 1:25 am



Ever Fallen in Love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with - Buzzcocks

You spurn my natural emotions
You make me feel I'm dirt and I'm hurt
And if I start a commotion
I run the risk of losing you and that's worse
Ever fallen in love with someone
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
You shouldn't have fallen in love with?
I can't see much of a future
Unless we find out what's to blame, what a shame
And we won't be together much longer
Unless we realize that we are the same
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No good has ever come from feeling guilty neither intelligence, policy, nor compassion. The guilty do not pay attention to the object but only to themselves and not even to their own interests, which might make sense, but to their anxieties. -Paul Goodman

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