sounds like fantastical thinking to me which equates to limerence. Ultimately we try and justify our decisions based on our feelings. with infatuation/limerence our thinking is not straight.
best not to look to another to make us happy as it puts pressure on the other. Reminds me of a book i read called The Eden Project, in search of the magical other by James Hollis
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Could both people have limerence?
Re: Could both people have limerence?
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Re: Could both people have limerence?
You said it yourself in the first paragraph that you don't know who this person is you haven't discussed leaving for each other. The reality is you don't know who someone is until you have been with them and spent lots of time with them and really gotten to know them. I have to agree with others that it's just not a good idea to uproot your life for another person.
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Re: Could both people have limerence?
Hey Hurting Heart. I understand your relationship with your husband is less than ideal, and yes, you deserve to be happy. Have you considered leaving your husband anyway? What will you do of the other man doesnt want to leave his wife or have an affair which I believe will go against his religion?
All the best hurting heart.
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