I think my LO has mood swings because one day he talks to me very nicely and pays attention, but the next day completely ignores me. We are good friends (so to speak), I expect him to be consistent with me. I told him yesterday that I've had enough. I asked him to behave better with me and he said "I don't owe you anything"
Feeling very helpless :(
My moods also fluctuate with his, now I don't know what to do in this case.
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LO has mood swings
Re: LO has mood swings
Sorry, but I have to be blunt here.
N-A-R-C.
Run for your life.
PS. He owes you basic courtesy. And yet he is a jerk.
N-A-R-C.
Run for your life.
PS. He owes you basic courtesy. And yet he is a jerk.
Me: F
LO: M
Both married.
LO: M
Both married.
Re: LO has mood swings
Yep, Nensi is right. RUN.
It won't get any better, and when you tie your moods to his, you lose yourself.
Many/most LOs in my experience are narcissists. So they are NEVER going to give you what you need to be happy and will intentionally withhold it.
Limerence has to do with dependence on others, and the most painful step of all is getting free.
You can do it.
It won't get any better, and when you tie your moods to his, you lose yourself.
Many/most LOs in my experience are narcissists. So they are NEVER going to give you what you need to be happy and will intentionally withhold it.
Limerence has to do with dependence on others, and the most painful step of all is getting free.
You can do it.
Person
Re: LO has mood swings
Ditto.
Run.
I didn't run and it all got worse and I'm currently devastated.
Run.
I didn't run and it all got worse and I'm currently devastated.
Re: LO has mood swings
He seems selfish and like a jerk. Response like that is rude and unsensitive. Seems like selfish and narcissistic.
F 28
LO M 40
LO M 40
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Hilo
Re: LO has mood swings
Thanks all for replies.
I know the right thing to do will be to run away. Wish it was that easy though.
I understand you all calling him narc, but then I can't give him the 100% security that he wants. I'm in a long term relationship which I can't leave.
Let's be honest, am I not a narc to expect emotional connection from him when I have not much to give in return!
This limerence is a painful thing..won't wish it on my worst enemy :(
I know the right thing to do will be to run away. Wish it was that easy though.
I understand you all calling him narc, but then I can't give him the 100% security that he wants. I'm in a long term relationship which I can't leave.
Let's be honest, am I not a narc to expect emotional connection from him when I have not much to give in return!
This limerence is a painful thing..won't wish it on my worst enemy :(
Re: LO has mood swings
Wow..Hilo wrote: ↑Wed Jul 01, 2020 4:36 pm I think my LO has mood swings because one day he talks to me very nicely and pays attention, but the next day completely ignores me. We are good friends (so to speak), I expect him to be consistent with me. I told him yesterday that I've had enough. I asked him to behave better with me and he said "I don't owe you anything"
Feeling very helpless
My moods also fluctuate with his, now I don't know what to do in this case.
Same
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