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L-F
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I love...

Post by L-F » Sun Jun 24, 2018 6:36 am

I love...

- the way my boys interact, the way they talk, shop together, help each other out, play games together, support and encourage each other
- the fact hubby and I still hold hands everywhere we go, after all these years
- that we go mountain biking and hiking together and have amazing discussions about limerence, and life in general
- discovering new dishes and recipes
- that I can openly say I am a narc and a bitch, claim it, own it and also celebrate it - I love being me - I have nothing to hide (from me or others)
- I love my spiritual side, it was a part of me when I was born and will remain a part of me
- Ivanhoe for being someone who can 'handle' me with respect, he is a real gentleman like my husband, and JT, thus I have complete respect for them ^:)^
- Spinnaker for being by my side through all the limer-crap and her ability to slap my face with reality from time to time (yes, she can be a bitch too, but a good one who only does things in a heartfelt way)
- the fact that I don't view people as being inherently evil (unless you are a sociopath in which case, there is no help for you)
- LO's strenghts, for if it wasn't for LO/LE, I wouldn't have learnt so much about myself!

- life!
Have conquered limerence. I'm no expert but have learnt enough to know where to look for answers.
Limerence Net helped to heal my heart which led to forgiving my abusers ❤

Ivanhoe
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Re: I love...

Post by Ivanhoe » Sun Jun 24, 2018 5:14 pm

L-F wrote:
Sun Jun 24, 2018 6:36 am
I love...

- Ivanhoe for being someone who can 'handle' me with respect, he is a real gentleman like my husband, and JT, thus I have complete respect for them
Ah c’mon LF, no one can ‘handle’ you :))

On another note, thank you for the observations about narcissism - you and David have helped me clarify this profoundly in my own life.
65 (feel 50); Male

"Grief makes children of us all. Any intellectual difference is destroyed. The wisest know nothing."
- Emerson

L-F
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Re: I love...

Post by L-F » Sun Jun 24, 2018 7:08 pm

Ivanhoe wrote:
Sun Jun 24, 2018 5:14 pm

Ah c’mon LF, no one can ‘handle’ you :))
That's true.
:D

And you're welcome. I dont think there is a limerent who doesn't have fleas. We all got em. Just some people refuse to admit it.

http://outofthefog.website/what-not-to- ... 12/3/fleas
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Have conquered limerence. I'm no expert but have learnt enough to know where to look for answers.
Limerence Net helped to heal my heart which led to forgiving my abusers ❤

Spinnaker
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Re: I love...

Post by Spinnaker » Sun Jun 24, 2018 7:54 pm

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“We are tied in a single garment of destiny. What affects one directly affects everyone indirectly”.
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

L-F
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Re: I love...

Post by L-F » Sun Jun 24, 2018 8:14 pm

Spinnaker wrote:
Sun Jun 24, 2018 7:54 pm
Thank you for the link, L-F. I didnt know what fleas were until you introduced me to them. Vicious and pesky little buggers. You've taught me so much. :-bd
Thank you Spin :x
And thank you for apologizing and for not getting mixed up with that nonsense. People tend to jump on bandwagons and start a witch hunt without even addressing what the actual issue is. If people want to do that, that's fine. But if I'm the witch they are hunting, good luck to them :ymdevil:
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Have conquered limerence. I'm no expert but have learnt enough to know where to look for answers.
Limerence Net helped to heal my heart which led to forgiving my abusers ❤

L-F
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Re: I love...

Post by L-F » Sun Jun 24, 2018 8:17 pm

- I love sitting on my deck watching the sun rise with a hot cup of coffee.
- I love sitting by the fire in winter and listening to the sounds.
- I love hearing the birds first thing in the morning and the crow of a rooster in the Valley.
- I love because I can.
Have conquered limerence. I'm no expert but have learnt enough to know where to look for answers.
Limerence Net helped to heal my heart which led to forgiving my abusers ❤

Spinnaker
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Re: I love...

Post by Spinnaker » Sun Jun 24, 2018 8:24 pm

:ymhug:
“We are tied in a single garment of destiny. What affects one directly affects everyone indirectly”.
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Havb
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Re: I love...

Post by Havb » Mon Jun 25, 2018 3:49 am

Great thread!

Allow me...


I love:

1) that I have fleas.

2) my tired, trying really hard but can’t quite get it together yet self

3) my perseverance

4)my eyes

5) my husband
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.” -Samuel Beckett

There is always more work to be done.

Anna
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Re: I love...

Post by Anna » Mon Jun 25, 2018 10:16 pm

This is actually a difficult exercise for me, because for over 50 years I have been re-hashing what I don't love about myself....
So I am still having trouble to find loveable traits... I will try though:

I love
- that I am pretty much independent and fending for myself in life
- that I get good feed-back for my work because I love my job 95% of the time
- the way I look (saying this makes me feel like I am a narcissist)
- nature in all its forms, cats in particular .
- that the weather is always good, wherever I go.

Ivanhoe
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Re: I love...

Post by Ivanhoe » Tue Jun 26, 2018 12:49 am

That I am brave enough to take risks for health;
That I am smart enough to know how far to go;
That I get that going through the pain is the only way;
Good coffee in the morning;
......... the game of golf. =))
65 (feel 50); Male

"Grief makes children of us all. Any intellectual difference is destroyed. The wisest know nothing."
- Emerson

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