Saying I'm Sorry Too Much

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AMA210
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Saying I'm Sorry Too Much

Post by AMA210 » Tue Apr 11, 2017 3:05 am

All of the time to LO, saying I'm sorry. Sometimes it just slipped out.
I'm sorry I lied to you.
I'm sorry if I'm bothering you.
I'm sorry this happened.
I'm sorry, but this is how I feel.
I'm sorry I showed up.

Pathetic. I never apologized so much to someone in my life.
Maybe I did with my FOO, but don't really remember that.

Dunk16
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Re: Saying I'm Sorry Too Much

Post by Dunk16 » Tue Apr 11, 2017 4:32 pm

I find myself doing this as well. I am constantly apologizing for who I am, what I believe, how I feel, etc. (only to LO). I am making a serious effort to stop this. He's a jerk to me and most people and never apologizes, why should I.
"Your beliefs keep you attached to a specific vibrational level. Change your beliefs and you will change your vibration. Change your vibration and you will change your whole world." —Roxana Jones

JupiterTaco
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Re: Saying I'm Sorry Too Much

Post by JupiterTaco » Thu Apr 20, 2017 1:58 am

Dunk16 wrote:
Tue Apr 11, 2017 4:32 pm
I find myself doing this as well. I am constantly apologizing for who I am, what I believe, how I feel, etc. (only to LO). I am making a serious effort to stop this. He's a jerk to me and most people and never apologizes, why should I.
I do that a lot too, am trying to stop. :)
"Be careful with your heart and what you love, make sure that it was sent from above"-John Mellencamp/India.Arie Peaceful World

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Re: Saying I'm Sorry Too Much

Post by JupiterTaco » Thu Apr 20, 2017 1:59 am

Aquamarine21 wrote:
Tue Apr 11, 2017 3:05 am
All of the time to LO, saying I'm sorry. Sometimes it just slipped out.
I'm sorry I lied to you.
I'm sorry if I'm bothering you.
I'm sorry this happened.
I'm sorry, but this is how I feel.
I'm sorry I showed up.

Pathetic. I never apologized so much to someone in my life.
Maybe I did with my FOO, but don't really remember that.
That's where it started in my family.
"Be careful with your heart and what you love, make sure that it was sent from above"-John Mellencamp/India.Arie Peaceful World

marko
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Re: Saying I'm Sorry Too Much

Post by marko » Thu Apr 20, 2017 3:03 pm

Trying to look really good for the LO. Been there, done that.

Matty5000
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Re: Saying I'm Sorry Too Much

Post by Matty5000 » Thu Jul 13, 2017 10:59 pm

Seems to be a common thing. I as well apologized too much to my LO. It's almost as if to say I'm so sorry please don't hate me you are perfect like me back!!! Well i'm not sorry dang it! I'm a good man and anyone who doesn't appreciate me for who I am isn't worth my time. Look yourself in the mirror and say that to yourselves. "I am a good person and I am worthy of love. Anyone who doesn't appreciate me isn't worth my time." Now go crush it baby!!!
Matty the "amateur limerent"

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Re: Saying I'm Sorry Too Much

Post by FreeBird » Mon Jul 17, 2017 7:54 pm

@Matty5000 \m/ :-bd
"The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing."-Blaise Pascal
"An unexamined life is not worth living"- Plato's Apology
"When the student is ready, the teacher will appear"-Buddhist proverb(?)

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