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At what age did you loose your virginity?

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At what age did you loose your virginity?

14 or younger
14
15%
15- 16
16
17%
17-18
17
18%
19
6
6%
20
4
4%
21
3
3%
22
5
5%
23 or older
16
17%
Still a virgin
13
14%
 
Total votes: 94

Summertime_Radness
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by Summertime_Radness » Sat Jan 02, 2016 4:27 pm

MarkActually wrote:I lost mine at 28 still can't believe I did it especially with the low
male sex drive that I carry....Its a mystery to my doctors,
shrinks, ect that i don't have a normal sex drive by any means.
I looked on the internet...no nothing...Im very alone.

sex pills don't help at all.

m.a.
Perhaps you're asexual, or ace for short. There's a growing community of Asexuals on the Internet.

MarkActually
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by MarkActually » Mon Jan 04, 2016 8:41 pm

You know you could be right you know I mean I like women always
have, I just never had the ability to perform sex with a partner.
I also have a hard time getting aroused...

Its hard enough to simply pleasure myself, its 50/50 at its best.

I could have easily gone my entire life without having sex
with a partner and not really missed it, I just wondered if this
really fucked up my brain, and to have Limerence to boot takes the cake!

Talk about really confused and sad; sometimes I feel I got
a bad deal in this game of life...no real ambition and no ability
to have sex with a partner.

starting 2016 w/ markactually

MarkActually
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by MarkActually » Mon Jan 04, 2016 9:51 pm

S.R.

Geez the more I read about "ace" I believe Im one!
Shit, what do I do? it fits my behavior pattern like a glove
just like Limerence.

Wow... In less than 14 months I found out that...

1.. I have Limerence.

2.. I could be asexual.

It NEVER dawned on me that I could be asexual, my dad thought I
was Gay because there were never any girls around me growing up
let alone talked about them. I liked them but; I felt different somehow...

I felt Ugly, Stupid & Worthless.

Just reading about this is pretty mind blowing right now...
I feel quite alone: very somber....Im kinda lost
right now. you know the feeling floating somewhere out there
in the middle of nowhere. m.a.

Summertime_Radness
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by Summertime_Radness » Mon Jan 04, 2016 10:52 pm

MarkActually wrote:S.R.

Geez the more I read about "ace" I believe Im one!
Shit, what do I do? it fits my behavior pattern like a glove
just like Limerence.

Wow... In less than 14 months I found out that...

1.. I have Limerence.

2.. I could be asexual.

It NEVER dawned on me that I could be asexual, my dad thought I
was Gay because there were never any girls around me growing up
let alone talked about them. I liked them but; I felt different somehow...

I felt Ugly, Stupid & Worthless.

Just reading about this is pretty mind blowing right now...
I feel quite alone: very somber....Im kinda lost
right now. you know the feeling floating somewhere out there
in the middle of nowhere. m.a.
Well, I can't speak from personal experience because I am definitely not ace but, I hope you are able to find and connect with people who are and can really understand your struggles. Considering the growing visibility of the Asexual community, you more than likely will. Just on Tumblr ALONE there are plenty of asexual blogs.

MarkActually
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by MarkActually » Tue Jan 05, 2016 10:04 am

Thanks for replying S.R.

You sir might have changed the direction of my life!
How about that!

I can't believe all of this is going on.
With me, yes this has opened a can of worms!

I must confess Im in the middle of freakout city! my life
is spinning around and around and I have zero control.
I guess my brain is going to tell me where to go.

Yes now Im going to reach out to those folks since
apparetlly Im one of them:

How does God feel making people asexual.
Does he think its funny? is it amusing?
(just like Joe Pesti in "Goodfellas"
Was he bored that day he created me and did he say:
"Lets make this person...mmmm Limerence as well as Asexual;
Let see what he does with this one".... ha ha "lets
watch him figure this one out! that will keep him
busy for years".... chuckle chuckle

"I like to be amused.... with the hu-man" (sounds like Spock)

It an Fucken Joke. m.a.

Summertime_Radness
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by Summertime_Radness » Tue Jan 05, 2016 4:43 pm

MarkActually wrote:Thanks for replying S.R.

You sir might have changed the direction of my life!
How about that!
I'm glad I could have helped. I'm sorry I didn't clarify before, but I am a lady. But forgive yourself, for it is an honest mistake, one that people seem to make all the time when they have nothing else to go by. I was a tomboy growing up (and still am, to some extent), so I guess I give off dude vibes.

MarkActually
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by MarkActually » Wed Jan 06, 2016 1:05 am

Sorry about that! I thought you were a dude! thats how emotional
I get when I'm on the website, even better your a dudess

This is a turning point for me thanks to you, you never know
how your going to change someone's life like how my LO
did it to me, not once in 1971 but again in 2015!
Its led me to this moment of self discovery!!!

You just don't fucken know....

Thanks for the life preserver
You talk like a dude and that's cool!!!!
fucken A

thank you for your compassion

mark actually

Summertime_Radness
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by Summertime_Radness » Wed Jan 06, 2016 1:14 am

Anytime! I've spent a lot of time on Tumblr getting to know various communities, and i'm glad I could help someone figure out an important part of their identity.

Lonelygirl
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by Lonelygirl » Sun Jan 31, 2016 11:50 pm

I'm 30 and I'm still virgin infact I've never had a bf let alone be kissed!!!!!

penelope4
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Re: At what age did you loose your virginity?

Post by penelope4 » Fri Jul 01, 2016 8:30 pm

I was 27. Plenty of opportunities to do it but I wanted to wait for The One. Seeing as neither L01 or L02 wanted me, that took me to 27 years old without having had sex. I finally said, °forget this nonsense, love doesn't exist° and had sex with the next guy who came knocking, the guy who became my second serious boyfriend.

After we broke up, I wondered if I'd become like everyone else... having sex whenever they felt like it, like a normal bodily function. Nope. Limerence got me again and because I only want F, I've only had sex once in six years ... a reaction to being upset about him. Chalk up another loss to limerence.

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