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They texted a few times, he fell in love, and before the end of May they were engaged. I found out in June that he had decided he’d divorce me and marry her. No discussion, already decided. I think he told her he’s divorced. She’s on indonesia, where he’s from, so he’s really never met her as an adult. But she’s applied for a startup visa, and plans to bring her, her three minor children, her adult daughter and fiancée, her maid, driver, and houseboy to the US. She’s being funded by her aunt and uncle, who also have been told he’s divorced. He’s been sending money.
He texts her obsessively, i our house, in front of me and our son. I’ve asked him not to but it makes no difference. He’ll lie and say he isn’t, when he clearly is. If she’s upset, he becomes a different person. Nervous, agitated, restless, even hostile and threatening.
I am shattered. I don’t understand how he can end our marriage for someone he doesn’t even know.