New here with husband in affair fog

[David]

UL - have you read some of the strategy on survivinginfidelity.com?

I cant advocate al l the advice given, understandable there is a lot of suggestions given from a place of (righteous) anger. That said, much of there toolbox articles are well worth a read https://survivinginfidelity.com/articles.asp . The forum will also offer a place of support.

[utterlylost]

UL - have you read some of the strategy on survivinginfidelity.com?

I cant advocate al l the advice given, understandable there is a lot of suggestions given from a place of (righteous) anger. That said, much of there toolbox articles are well worth a read https://survivinginfidelity.com/articles.asp . The forum will also offer a place of support.

Thank you so much David. My husband is just such a different person right now and I feel like he is in real trouble. He's a good person at heart and never done a thing even remotely like this in his life. I have been working through with Marriage Helper but additional resources are always welcome- thank you. With him living across the country with his LO- I really don't know what his life is like at all and it's scary. He just seems to not care at all about me or our 7 year old son. We all were so incredibly close. I just wish the limerence would be done and he would come home.