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Bisexual Limerents: Do you experience limerence over both genders or just one?

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For bisexual limerents, do you experience limerence over both genders, or just one?

I am female, and experience limerence ONLY with WOMEN
2
11%
I am female, and experience limerence ONLY with MEN
9
50%
I am female, and experience limerence with BOTH genders
2
11%
I am male, and experience limerence ONLY with WOMEN
5
28%
I am male, and experience limerence ONLY with MEN
0
No votes
I am male, and experience limerence with BOTH genders
0
No votes
 
Total votes: 18

Pandora
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Bisexual Limerents: Do you experience limerence over both genders or just one?

Post by Pandora » Wed Sep 12, 2018 10:00 pm

I was reading a blurb in Lover and Limerence where Tennov notes that bisexual limerents are often only limerent for one gender. I wondered if this holds true for the members of this forum.

I also realize this poll ignores genderfluid/nonbinary people, so if anyone has thoughts about limerence around less traditional gender perspectives I'd love to hear it!
Desire is a state,
a state of ill repair.
It's ill prepared to cope,
it's ill prepared to care.

JupiterTaco
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Re: Bisexual Limerents: Do you experience limerence over both genders or just one?

Post by JupiterTaco » Mon Feb 18, 2019 6:42 am

I've often thought my first best friend was my first LO, but I was so young that I'd have to really revisit that to confirm that but it wouldn't surprise me. I don't make friends often so I can find myself getting too attached to friends but IDK if it's the same thing, it's just a problem I have, which again, goes back to my childhood wounds. Aside I've always been limerent for guys.
"You tell them, we've all got meanness in us. And tell them, we've got good in us too. And the only thing worth living for is the good. That's why we've got to try and pass it on"-Novalee, Where The Heart Is

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