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LE was 22 months and LO works four blocks from my home
"Always moving forward"
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Talking about this subject (to SO) is a good start. It's quite likely they feel disappointed too. Bringing in another woman will liven things up! Or agreeing to see other people outside of the marriage for physical intimacy has helped couples too.
I think the important thing to do is start talking. Take time to enjoy each others company.
It sounds like a lonely place @Endgame. Your story was moving.
@AM... I enjoy getting new toys Mops, vacuum cleaners, irons etc.
I'm no expert, but have learnt enough to know where to look for answers.
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Our hot sexual experiences happen when I have an LO, and that's been the case since we got married 25 years ago. I wish I had recognized what was happening back then. But since meeting the recent LO earlier this summer, things with my SO have been supercharged. I think about LO the entire time we are doing it, but SO loves that I am so turned on (although he has no idea why).
Ugh. I feel depressed as I write this. I want so much to "have it all," I guess. I just want someone I can feel close to AND have sex with, and I am finding my SO pretty annoying these days. Back to the topic at hand, SO projects his very dated Playboy Bunny b.s. onto me every time we are intimate. I really don't care to hear someone tell me WHAT objectified version of a woman they think I look like while we're in the throes of passion. I think he has a major madonna/whore thing going on.
So I guess I'm changing my answer to no.
Limerent for as long as I can remember
Have had 7 "real" LOs in the last 25 years
(...had a recent 8, but he was easy to release. Progress?!)
Last real LO is male, age 44, married AND has another GF!
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Also SO sharing fantasies (sharing is good and Im
All for that ) about younger girls when im
In my late 40’s is becoming a nuisance rather than a turn on
LO is older married male
Attempted NC -failed 3x
Now in full blown EA and PA
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