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How Does Your LO Affect You By Seeing Him/Her

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How Does Your LO Affect You By Seeing Them? (No interaction)

I have no reaction
0
No votes
Anger
5
9%
Sadness
7
12%
Longing
12
21%
Helpless
3
5%
Results in a "hit"
8
14%
Comforted
4
7%
Emptiness is filled temporarily
5
9%
Happy
5
9%
Promotes a desire for an interaction
8
14%
 
Total votes: 57

AMA210
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How Does Your LO Affect You By Seeing Him/Her

Post by AMA210 » Fri Sep 08, 2017 12:44 pm

I am wondering how many of you are affected by just seeing your LO, with no interaction.
LE was 22 months...LO catalyst for awakening, in which I chose divorce (after 27 years of marriage)
Very happy and content with my new beginning

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Re: How Does Your LO Affect You By Seeing Him/Her

Post by DelusionGirl » Sat Sep 09, 2017 5:04 am

Initially I get a "fight or flight" response, just like one time I turned around at a zoo and a lion was right behind me. After that I feel comforted by his presence.

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Re: How Does Your LO Affect You By Seeing Him/Her

Post by FreeBird » Sat Sep 09, 2017 2:51 pm

I get that "hit", then feel frustrated.
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Re: How Does Your LO Affect You By Seeing Him/Her

Post by french girl » Mon Sep 11, 2017 3:35 pm

Yes, frustration is the main feeling for me.
And sadness.
Worked with LO today, he's so indifferent that it makes me cry. Spending a day at work with him around, I just feel gloomy, depressed, melancholic and bored with my job.
And the worst is that I'm always afraid that some day he could leave the place... :-??
When I have this guy around, I feel useless, boring, clumsy and ugly. He makes me feel uninteresting in every way.
In the beginning I just wanted to be his friend. It never happened.
« Love is giving something you don't have to someone who doesn't want it. » Jacques Lacan

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