Poll - was there loss, bereavement or illness before your limerence was triggered?

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Death or potentially life threatening illness/injury of a loved one prior to limerence?

Death
15
47%
Illness/Injury
2
6%
Neither
15
47%
 
Total votes: 32

Heart_Open
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Re: Poll - was there bereavement or illness before your limerence was triggered?

Post by Heart_Open » Thu Jan 12, 2017 6:53 pm

No bereavement here but I had suffered 3 months of mild depression caused by a combination of moving away from where I grew up (beginning a major new beginning) to a very new area (Sept) and also underactive thyroid issues. I was in a job (supermarket whilst studying) I hated and was looking for something closer to my new home that fit in with my studies. The new job was just round the corner...LO was the guy who actually handed me the application form (end Dec) and started working with him in January. May 2008 - BAM! the beginnings of this insane limerent journey. Definitely mssive life change

JellyBean
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Re: Poll - was there bereavement or illness before your limerence was triggered?

Post by JellyBean » Fri Jan 13, 2017 2:40 am

Neither. Nothing. It came out of the blue

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FreeBird
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Re: Poll - was there loss, bereavement or illness before your limerence was triggered?

Post by FreeBird » Thu Jul 13, 2017 5:40 am

First triggered after my brother's death
Again after each of my parents' death
Currently was triggered after the sudden death of my DH's sister
"The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing."-Blaise Pascal
Me/LS: middle-aged, married woman
LO: middle-aged, married man with children
LE: L developed around age 12. LO was good friend of my FOO, now deceased.

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