Beauty is skin deep

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Describe how your LO looks physically

Hot
12
14%
Pretty
7
8%
Beautiful face
8
9%
Gorgeous
6
7%
Handsome
9
10%
Good looking
9
10%
Cute
8
9%
Nerdy
5
6%
Ugly
0
No votes
Average
3
3%
When you met your LO, did you assume they were a nice person based on their appearance?
0
No votes
Yes
9
10%
No
11
13%
 
Total votes: 87

JellyBean
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Re: Beauty is skin deep

Post by JellyBean » Fri May 19, 2017 9:00 pm

Spinnaker wrote:
Thu May 18, 2017 9:14 pm
Charisma!
Narcs have this in abundance :)
Just call me LF, short for Limerent Friend.

AMA210
Posts: 1325
Joined: Tue Nov 15, 2016 2:17 pm

Re: Beauty is skin deep

Post by AMA210 » Sat May 20, 2017 2:07 am

@frenchgirl: "Another reason why I prefer to think about him as "average" is that I'm ugly, so this way he seems closer to me than if he was totally handsome. But anyway, he's out of my league the same..."

Thank you for contributing to the poll. An assumption for me was that if someone is physically attractive, they are nice also. My assumption has proved to be incorrect.

In regards to what you said about being ugly. I want to tell you this, partly because of my recent experience, but considering myself to be average also, what really really matters is who you are inside, in your heart, how you treat others, the love you give to others, so much more, but these things will never be considered ugly.

Find the good within you, write it down, post it here. :)

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FreeBird
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Joined: Thu Jul 13, 2017 12:51 am

Re: Beauty is skin deep

Post by FreeBird » Tue Aug 15, 2017 8:03 pm

Very tall, broad shoulders, tan, calm demeanor, confident, handsome/good-looking, open and friendly. He has almost a military bearing about him; very substantial.
"The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing."-Blaise Pascal
"An unexamined life is not worth living"- Plato's Apology
"When the student is ready, the teacher will appear"-Buddhist proverb(?)

Ignacio
Posts: 19
Joined: Wed Apr 26, 2017 2:52 am

Re: Beauty is skin deep

Post by Ignacio » Sun Aug 20, 2017 1:21 am

Objectively she's hot and I feel a slight sexual attraction to her but she's really cute in a not so supermodel hot way. I can't really describe it. Yes she's really hot but I think she has that cute approachable look to her too as if the better I know her the less I am exclusively focused on her sexiness and more on how it balances into her entire personality. Hot or sexy to me is a feature of appearance (like those angry looking supermodels) whereas I think cute implies a more friendly look and is attractive in that girl next door way. Cute is attractive to YOU not always having the objective sexy attributes. Still she is a sight to behold. I'm just interested not limerent yet.
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Ignacio

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