Friends after?

A common and understandable desire, can it work?
dian
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Yes DD
That was it :)
Its in openfForum:
Its happening again

NoDayDreaming

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dian wrote:
Mon Jun 17, 2019 10:35 pm
...there is always a decision, even if we are not aware of it and the pull towards LO is overwhelming,
yes and no. yes, there are often conscious decisions that are very difficult to make (like the red pill) while under a spell.
no, because sometimes we act in an illogical way, following a script programmed in out subconsciousness while in childhood. and finally in the middle ground, when we follow a habit without thinking about it. as soon as we recognize that bad habit, we have a chance (it's not easy either) to change it. this is what behavioral-cognitive therapy is all about, and supposedly it helps in limerence.

dian
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There is a very good post and video from David on “Parental issues“.
Have you seen it ? DD?
Onparental rescue fantasy - it meets on what we were talking about.
I think we adult humans are never victims to any situation, as it is a decision on HOW we deal with it in our minds.
And I dont talk about judging anything. I try to keep away from judging as far as possible. (And often I fail, and try again, knowing it was my mistake..) Sounds unrealistic? Judging is a two way sword

NoDayDreaming

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dian wrote:
Wed Jun 26, 2019 12:07 pm
There is a very good post and video from David on “Parental issues“.
Have you seen it ? DD?
Onparental rescue fantasy - it meets on what we were talking about.
I think we adult humans are never victims to any situation, as it is a decision on HOW we deal with it in our minds.
And I dont talk about judging anything. I try to keep away from judging as far as possible. (And often I fail, and try again, knowing it was my mistake..) Sounds unrealistic? Judging is a two way sword
thanks dian, i'll try to find it.

dian
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Its on Parental/FOO Issues, fourth post: Parental Rescue Fantasy and Limerence
LovettoyyouDD
(My mobile is doing funny things again...)

NoDayDreaming

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dian wrote:
Wed Jun 26, 2019 2:58 pm
Its on Parental/FOO Issues, fourth post: Parental Rescue Fantasy and Limerence
LovettoyyouDD
(My mobile is doing funny things again...)
i see it now, i'll listen to that after work.
i like you too, dian (unless you mean your phone is doing this?).

dian
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Re: Friends after?

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... Im so greatful for all this support I have been given here... and I m happy to pass it on... :ymhug:

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