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Sticky: Tips/thoughts on how to be "just friends" with an LO

A common and understandable desire, can it work?
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Re: Sticky: Tips/thoughts on how to be "just friends" with an LO

Post by Sara72 » Tue Apr 24, 2018 1:53 pm

LO and me tried to stay friends after our fling. But it was a failure. LO and I kept flirting but in the end LO lost interest and I crashed hard. And still there is a longing to just be friends. But I see it is not a normal healthy longing. As long as the limerence hasn't faded I see no possibility for a friendship. I sometimes even feel a strong dislike for him and I doubt I would want to stay friends without the limerence. To me my wish for friendship was and is a sign of my limerence brain trying to stay in touch without an actual desire for friendship. Because to be honest... LO and I have nothing in common. So... That and the fact LO has been ignoring me for almost a year now doesn't help either 😁
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