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I have this mutual limerence with a married client. I know to need to go no contact and end our professional relationship. The chemistry is so palpable. I can’t imagine not experiencing our interactions but I know it the healthiest thing to do. How do I end our professional relationship?
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Such a tough spot to find yourself. I would imagine that LOs in this situation often want "no contact" too, but they worry about hurting your livelihood. I think most people in mutual limerence assume that the problem is theirs alone, not understanding the depth of what the other person is experiencing. I struggle with this. My feelings run deep, and I assume that nobody else is experiencing the same. So if I'm in limerence, they just have a crush or whatever.....
Communication is key here. But that's usually a problem with mutual limerents. We are terrified of saying the wrong thing (and we often do anyway).
There is another guy on here from a few weeks ago struggling with the same thing (but he is the client). I think he posted in the open forum. Not sure if his LO was limerent though.
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