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Low Contact: Anybody have success with this?

A tough thing to do - the pros and cons
Pattihopeful
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Re: Low Contact: Anybody have success with this?

Post by Pattihopeful » Sat Aug 10, 2019 11:12 pm

Thanks Spock for sharing. I don't want give up my job but no contact since Tuesday is really starting to pay off. 4 days now. Time will tell for sure. Of course the solid rejection helped as well.

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Re: Low Contact: Anybody have success with this?

Post by L-F » Sun Aug 11, 2019 2:25 am

This is a great time to use that energy to heal. I found anger was an awesome motivator.
Sounds like you've got this PH.
If only we'd sit with the void too... then perhaps we won't need to fill it once we get over the fear of its existence. L-F

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Re: Low Contact: Anybody have success with this?

Post by Pattihopeful » Sun Aug 11, 2019 12:01 pm

Great points mamista and Maddie. He certainly triggers a lot of negative emotions. I want to swim too! If I keep this job, I will have to see him. I am very afraid for that time. I sure don't want to get all emotional.

LF, yes I need to use the anger. Telling me I can still say nice things to his bosses and having him primp will need to be burned in my mind lol.

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