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Made a decision

A tough thing to do - the pros and cons
Tremington
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Joined: Mon Dec 31, 2018 4:20 am
Location: Southwest US
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Age: 47
United States of America

Re: Made a decision

Post by Tremington » Sat Jan 12, 2019 2:41 pm

Only 2 weeks into this NC, but like I said we have had other periods that stretched many months of NC. Its going ok so far.

NVTS
Posts: 539
Joined: Wed Sep 13, 2017 4:49 pm
Fiji

Re: Made a decision

Post by NVTS » Sat Jan 12, 2019 4:14 pm

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So yeah, guys can feel it too. I literally have to leave her alone if I truly care about her and her hapiness. I have to live with that everyday. I want us both to be happy even if it is without each other.

I came to that realization earlier in this LE. Unfortunately it hasn’t entirely stopped me from reaching out.Buuuuut I do feel for the first time since LE started that the Gifts and Lessons are sinking in.
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M-47-married
LO- married 48,work colleagues

Pandora
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Joined: Wed Sep 05, 2018 4:29 pm
Canada

Re: Made a decision

Post by Pandora » Sat Jan 12, 2019 8:54 pm

So, I made another decision: I disclosed, in the sense of 'I can't contact you anymore because I like you and stuff'. His response was kind, as expected, but also hilarious in such a way that it made me glad that I was choosing not to moon over him anymore.

So, now I embark on a new era. Limerence post DC and NC. We'll see how it goes.
Desire is a state,
a state of ill repair.
It's ill prepared to cope,
it's ill prepared to care.

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