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broke NC after 40 days

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Rosegirlxoxo
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broke NC after 40 days

Post by Rosegirlxoxo » Wed Oct 24, 2018 3:15 am

I broke down and sent him an email. I promised myself if he doesn't respond, that's it. I hate my weakness. I feel like if I could just spend some time with him, I could get him out of my system. But he would rather breadcrumb me on social media than get together IRL.

Pandora
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Re: broke NC after 40 days

Post by Pandora » Wed Oct 24, 2018 5:30 am

40 days is an amazing accomplishment, and you should be proud! And if you did it before, you can do it again. I find that if I beat myself up when I falter, the more likely I am to keep repeating the same cycle of shame and depression leading to a need to feel good again, which leads me to limerent behaviours. Be kind to yourself!

Do you have a plan for what you'll do if he does reply?
Desire is a state,
a state of ill repair.
It's ill prepared to cope,
it's ill prepared to care.

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