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What is up with the strong compulsion to disclose?

Does disclosure to our Limerent/Love Object help?
Shadow
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Re: What is up with the strong compulsion to disclose?

Post by Shadow » Sat Jan 12, 2019 10:12 pm

My desire to disclose is merely to give my LO an explanation for all the times he might have thought I was being rude or just plain odd. I could never disclose face to face, but I sometimes fantasize about leaving a note on his windshield on the last day I ever see him, whether that be due to me finding a new job or him retiring. I want to apologize to him for my actions and let him know it was all due to the anxiety of liking him so much it hurts.

Pattihopeful
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Re: What is up with the strong compulsion to disclose?

Post by Pattihopeful » Sat Jan 12, 2019 10:22 pm

If I am honest I want recriprocation and the then we valiently fight this beast together while being close friends and talking about how hard it is. We will give each other comfort. Crazy I know.

Pandora
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Re: What is up with the strong compulsion to disclose?

Post by Pandora » Sat Jan 12, 2019 10:24 pm

That is not crazy in the slightest! I totally had the same fantasy.

Well, at least if it is crazy, you're not the only one!
Desire is a state,
a state of ill repair.
It's ill prepared to cope,
it's ill prepared to care.

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