I doubt it, considering my Limerence. However, in the past some months I've been making conscious efforts to constrain the obsessive thoughts. It's working, much in the same way as my effort to break 10+ years of rumination that had consumed my emotional energy, after my last divorce.JupiterTaco wrote: ↑Sat Jul 04, 2020 6:33 pm Do you think you can be friends with her without the feelings?
I'm NOT going on antidepressants, and therapy is probably beyond my reach, with the health coverage I have. I still would like to do some counseling sessions, but 80 mile round trips kinda takes the 'thrill' out of that venture.
Nothing in this world is 100% certain, but she surely has had the opportunity to manipulate me, these past 6 years if she so desired. She is genuine, and just behaves appropriately.JupiterTaco wrote: ↑Sat Jul 04, 2020 6:33 pmAnd even if so, are you 100% sure she won't use the "friend" situation to manipulate your feelings?