Uh oh!

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Havb
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Uh oh!

Post by Havb » Sat Jan 13, 2018 2:08 pm

Once again thought I was in the clear—-I don’t want anything from LO, I don’t need anything from him, I really am over him, surely I can ask him for help with something technological, when bam! The worm is back! Thoughts of him, of his large, masculine hands as he fiddled with my computer, and it devolves from there. Oy! I have not won the battle with indulgence. And I am more and more convinced that he has behaved more honorably than I throughout this whole thing, whereas I have been immature..
“Patience, grasshopper.” Also, “listen to your intuition.”

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L-F
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Re: Uh oh!

Post by L-F » Sun Jan 14, 2018 4:36 am

Remember what I said?

It's okay. It is ALL okay. Indulgence is part and parcel of it all. One step forward, two back makes a dance step.

What ever you do, don't forget to dance!

The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it.

Jordan Belfort

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Re: Uh oh!

Post by Matty5000 » Sun Jan 14, 2018 10:25 am

This is my limerence dance: awkward and unrelenting, yet I can't look away.

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Re: Uh oh!

Post by Matty5000 » Sun Jan 14, 2018 10:31 am

Hang in there havb, its a process!
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Re: Uh oh!

Post by L-F » Sun Jan 14, 2018 5:25 pm

Now that's what I call dancing Matty :D
The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it.

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Re: Uh oh!

Post by Havb » Mon Jan 15, 2018 3:28 pm

LOL thanks to you boTh for the dancing metaphors. I love to dance personally and this reminded me of that!

I do remember what you said L-F, and I have been being pretty kind to myself about the “indulgence” as a result. I even tried to laugh about it!

That said, off to practice some salsa!
“Patience, grasshopper.” Also, “listen to your intuition.”

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