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Uh oh!

Open forum ... what's on your mind? Want to vent or lament about your Limerent/Love Object? This is the ideal place.
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Havb
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Uh oh!

Post by Havb » Sat Jan 13, 2018 2:08 pm

Once again thought I was in the clear—-I don’t want anything from LO, I don’t need anything from him, I really am over him, surely I can ask him for help with something technological, when bam! The worm is back! Thoughts of him, of his large, masculine hands as he fiddled with my computer, and it devolves from there. Oy! I have not won the battle with indulgence. And I am more and more convinced that he has behaved more honorably than I throughout this whole thing, whereas I have been immature..
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.” -Samuel Beckett

There is always more work to be done.

L-F
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Re: Uh oh!

Post by L-F » Sun Jan 14, 2018 4:36 am

Remember what I said?

It's okay. It is ALL okay. Indulgence is part and parcel of it all. One step forward, two back makes a dance step.

What ever you do, don't forget to dance!

A first date question: "how aware are you of your traumas and suppressed emotions, and tell me how you are actively working to heal them before you project that shit on me?"

Matty5000
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Re: Uh oh!

Post by Matty5000 » Sun Jan 14, 2018 10:25 am

This is my limerence dance: awkward and unrelenting, yet I can't look away.

Other people make excellent mirrors.
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Matty5000
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Re: Uh oh!

Post by Matty5000 » Sun Jan 14, 2018 10:31 am

Hang in there havb, its a process!
Other people make excellent mirrors.
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L-F
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Re: Uh oh!

Post by L-F » Sun Jan 14, 2018 5:25 pm

Now that's what I call dancing Matty :D
A first date question: "how aware are you of your traumas and suppressed emotions, and tell me how you are actively working to heal them before you project that shit on me?"

Havb
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Re: Uh oh!

Post by Havb » Mon Jan 15, 2018 3:28 pm

LOL thanks to you boTh for the dancing metaphors. I love to dance personally and this reminded me of that!

I do remember what you said L-F, and I have been being pretty kind to myself about the “indulgence” as a result. I even tried to laugh about it!

That said, off to practice some salsa!
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.” -Samuel Beckett

There is always more work to be done.

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