Open forum ... what's on your mind? Want to vent or lament about your Limerent/Love Object? This is the ideal place.
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Wallflower wrote: ↑
Sun Mar 19, 2017 2:12 pm
I won't say anything. Because no matter what I say, it won't help you.
But I hope you find a way to love yourself. Cause if you do, you won't need any of that bull**** to make you feel better.
Yeah that's a nice thought. The more I accomplish the more I seem to 'love myself' or at least I gain more confidence. I used to not even be able to look people in the eye because I hated myself so much. But what if self-love comes from doing bad things? I feel like making my LO love me would make me proud of myself to have achieved my greatest desire. I don't know how anyone can love themselves unless they are winners. It's all just a big competition to me. I know nothing matters and that consciousness is beautiful and all of that, but there is just like a hole in me that won't go away, and that I can only distract myself from with risky activities and massive amounts of validation. I tried being good and it was still there, only I was more bored.
And yeah idk why I'm posting here. It feels good to express myself authentically and calms me down a bit I guess.
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I am an HSP actually. Highly Sensitive Person.
No need to even do the questions. I tested positive on that years ago. lol
I think it's just within a person's make-up. Some naturally have obsessive personalities. They genuinely like something, and it takes a hold completely. It can be limerence. Or an obsession with games, movies, shows, etc.
Limerence is basically addiction. But it's addiction to a person, or certain kind of people. For us, that's our drug. It's a double-edged sword.
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