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When my dad passed last year, I got close to one of my flatmates and I have been in limerence with him for a bit more than a year now and it is very hard as I am leaving with him.
It started as a little 'crush' and nothing never happened until my dad passed. When I came back in Ireland after the funerals, we started "hooking up" (but we've never been in a relationship). He is constantly in my head, i wakeup thinking about him and until I fall asleep all my attention is focused on him.
I have a very anxious attachment style and ... No surprise my LO is a total avoidant. He is my drug. I feel I am loosing my mind, I have no more contrôl. And even if I tried so hard and so many times to stop it, I just can't, I just fall off again and again ... And being flatmates doesn't help obviously as even if I try to avoid contact with him, he is still in sight and even more in my mind.
Anybody can relate ?
Wish you all the best guys
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Welcome to the forums. I hope you keep posting and reaching out for support.
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