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Can we be Friends with our Limerent/Love Objects's?
A common and understandable desire, can it work?
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Last post contact with an LO from 20 ye…
by Annabelle View the latest post
Mon Jun 19, 2017 4:28 am
Going No Contact
A tough thing to do - the pros and cons
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45 Topics

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Last post Re: Urge to break 9 days of NC
by howdidthishappen View the latest post
Wed May 31, 2017 7:38 pm
Limerent / Infatuated whilst in a Long Term Relationship
For those married or in a Long Term Relationship and struggling with limerence.
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39 Topics

266 Posts

Last post Re: Married - LO is my wife
by marko View the latest post
Sun Jun 18, 2017 12:54 am
To disclose or Not?
Does disclosure to our Limerent/Love Object help?
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34 Topics

265 Posts

Last post Re: A Diffwrent View on Discl…
by marko View the latest post
Wed Apr 19, 2017 11:38 pm

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Sticky - Can we ever be friends with our LO's?

Last post by marko « Thu May 11, 2017 6:53 pm
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by David » Sat Feb 22, 2014 5:56 pm
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Sticky: Tips/thoughts on how to be "just friends" with an LO

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by STR » Wed Sep 23, 2015 2:27 am

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Tue May 09, 2017 1:11 pm
Sticky - a warning on the perils of disclosure

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by David » Mon Nov 30, 2015 6:26 pm

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Last post by JohnDeux
Wed Oct 05, 2016 4:42 pm
Poll on disclosure

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by David » Thu Jan 01, 2015 7:24 am
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Last post by Lost and confused
Sun Aug 14, 2016 4:52 am
Why is going NC so hard?

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by David » Tue Nov 18, 2014 8:06 pm
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Last post by Lonelygirl
Sun Feb 07, 2016 1:00 am
contact with an LO from 20 years ago

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by Annabelle » Mon Jun 19, 2017 4:28 am

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Last post by Annabelle
Mon Jun 19, 2017 4:28 am
Married - LO is my wife

Last post by marko « Sun Jun 18, 2017 12:54 am
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by mondaymarch » Mon Mar 20, 2017 1:13 pm
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Sun Jun 18, 2017 12:54 am
After limerence end...return to marriage?

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by ersha » Thu Jun 08, 2017 7:21 pm

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Thu Jun 08, 2017 9:26 pm
How do I tell my boyfriend?

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by Meraella » Wed Jun 07, 2017 5:53 pm

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Thu Jun 08, 2017 3:07 pm
Urge to break 9 days of NC

Last post by howdidthishappen « Wed May 31, 2017 7:38 pm
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by Paul45 » Mon May 29, 2017 3:39 pm

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Last post by howdidthishappen
Wed May 31, 2017 7:38 pm
Absolute NC - Updates

Last post by AMA210 « Fri May 19, 2017 7:29 pm
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by AMA210 » Sat Feb 04, 2017 1:42 pm
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Fri May 19, 2017 7:29 pm
So confused

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by Confused17 » Sun May 14, 2017 4:16 pm

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Mon May 15, 2017 12:30 am
A Diffwrent View on Disclosure to LO

Last post by marko « Wed Apr 19, 2017 11:38 pm
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by AMA210 » Sun Dec 18, 2016 4:46 am

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Last post by marko
Wed Apr 19, 2017 11:38 pm
Stuck in the Middle

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by AMA210 » Fri Apr 07, 2017 3:41 am

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Fri Apr 07, 2017 1:53 pm
minor freak out over the inevitable

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by townshend » Mon Apr 03, 2017 3:41 pm

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Last post by Pandapants
Tue Apr 04, 2017 9:40 pm
LO's Reactions to My Disclosures

Last post by Casey.k « Sat Apr 01, 2017 9:49 pm
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by AMA210 » Wed Mar 29, 2017 2:17 pm
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Last post by Casey.k
Sat Apr 01, 2017 9:49 pm
LC/NC Is Like Grieving a Death

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by AMA210 » Thu Mar 23, 2017 10:18 pm

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Sat Apr 01, 2017 4:09 am
Trying to let go of emotional affair

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by Letting Go » Thu Mar 30, 2017 3:10 am

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Fri Mar 31, 2017 3:32 am
Being Friends with Married LO

Last post by sydney0845 « Tue Mar 28, 2017 11:59 pm
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by AMA210 » Mon Mar 27, 2017 12:25 am
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Last post by sydney0845
Tue Mar 28, 2017 11:59 pm
Should I return a significant gift if it means nothing to me

Last post by David « Sat Mar 25, 2017 10:36 am
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by numan » Fri Mar 24, 2017 1:48 pm

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Last post by David
Sat Mar 25, 2017 10:36 am
Negative Aspects of Disclosing to LO

Last post by L-F « Thu Mar 23, 2017 8:04 pm
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by AMA210 » Sun Mar 19, 2017 7:25 pm

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Last post by L-F
Thu Mar 23, 2017 8:04 pm
NC for one month, but now I'm feeling weak!

Last post by Casey.k « Mon Mar 13, 2017 11:26 am
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by gottagetoveryou » Sun Mar 12, 2017 10:59 pm

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Last post by Casey.k
Mon Mar 13, 2017 11:26 am
How to do it?

Last post by L-F « Sat Mar 11, 2017 6:33 pm
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by sjkaty » Fri Mar 10, 2017 11:02 pm

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Last post by L-F
Sat Mar 11, 2017 6:33 pm
Friends with LO or LO who is a friend

Last post by WonkyBrainThe2nd « Fri Mar 10, 2017 12:44 pm
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by sydney0845 » Thu Mar 09, 2017 9:46 pm

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Last post by WonkyBrainThe2nd
Fri Mar 10, 2017 12:44 pm
A married person cannot be friends with an LO

Last post by Dunk16 « Thu Mar 09, 2017 7:00 pm
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