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by JohnDeux
Fri May 21, 2021 7:22 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Narcissism
Replies: 24
Views: 880

Re: Narcissism

So rather than dragging LO or ourselves down by calling ourselves narcissistic, why not lift ourselves up a notch and just call ourselves human? Simply follow the sentences in which I use "I" will give you some indication of the extent to which I struggle with this term and condition... d...
by JohnDeux
Tue May 11, 2021 6:27 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: What videos would you like made?
Replies: 8
Views: 297

Re: What videos would you like made?

Intrusive thoughts? What happens in your brain when your brain goes haywire with thoughts that seem to come from nowhere? Thanks JT, ive just finished on on breaking habits, although its going to be part of the online video course. I may take some snippets and post them as a video short **Trigger W...
by JohnDeux
Thu Apr 29, 2021 6:07 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Limerence, neuroscience and anonymity
Replies: 4
Views: 205

Re: Limerence, neuroscience and anonymity

David, Is it as common in the UK as in the USA to use "Dr." interchangeably for medical doctor (MD) and Doctoral degree recipient (PhD)? If (s)he's a neuroscientist, then the person may be justified in using that title. On the one hand, I don't see a concern with the existence of colleague...
by JohnDeux
Wed Apr 21, 2021 6:13 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: What exactly are men and women looking for when limerent?
Replies: 6
Views: 320

Re: What exactly are men and women looking for when limerent?

..... this one has you escape through another person. You can pull in other desires that also add a complex layer, but many here look for a better self. I wanted mine to be hot and popular, I wanted to be the cool guy, I wanted a better me--but only as projection and absurd thoughts could conjure. ...
by JohnDeux
Tue Apr 13, 2021 6:34 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Psyschological theories
Replies: 4
Views: 217

Re: Psyschological theories

Yes,but I find It very interesting as a fan.The most shocking are the definitions of Jacques Lacan,like this "There is no Other Of the Other",a genius! Another good back-door into Lacan is Annie Rogers' "The Unsayable: The Hidden Language of Trauma." In a recent video here, Davi...
by JohnDeux
Sat Mar 13, 2021 12:00 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Mother
Replies: 20
Views: 1124

Re: Mother

....It almost feels like it's a subtle way to strike back and "get something" out of which also was how I was raised. Not my own original thought, but I'm convinced that assisted living/nursing home scratches so many subconscious itches.....not least of which is payback: "You stuffed...
by JohnDeux
Sun Mar 07, 2021 4:28 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Mother
Replies: 20
Views: 1124

Re: Mother

... But i still feel trapped in how pathetic this whole thing is, theres no way out of being a Narcs child. Youre born guilty,it makes me sick sometimes... ...... And him, i feared him first, respected him out of "duty", but i dont know how to love him, or to even show the basic filial lo...
by JohnDeux
Thu Feb 25, 2021 1:17 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Reunion?
Replies: 14
Views: 690

Re: Reunion?

I guess this is four. I noticed Valentines day was a trigger time and even checked out her ex boyfriends FB page. Once a month or two I check to see if they still see each other as they called off engagement over a year ago. No idea--every week for a minute I want to text her to see if she still ha...
by JohnDeux
Fri Nov 20, 2020 4:31 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Who is the new girl??
Replies: 3
Views: 326

Re: Who is the new girl??

I'm in NC and consciously working on my improving my self. But I am obsessed with wanting to know who he is now with . It's driving me mad! ......I can't deal with not knowing who?? Is this relevant ? how do I get past this completely? Thank you It may not have a place in your recovery, but it can ...
by JohnDeux
Thu Nov 12, 2020 6:24 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Update
Replies: 15
Views: 941

Re: Update

...Later last night that ancient "you will never be loved, no one would or will ever love you" thoughts creep by. I now remember clearly these thoughts at a very young age, seriously taken to heart and a life mantra. It was there, tipped off some thought of the LO to seek validation, and ...