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Over the last number of years I have become a student of, and a strong believer in, the notion of "Determinism". None of us chose our genetics, our parents, our native language, or cultural upbringing, none of it. All of these things made you who you are. Every time you have a decision to ...

A lot of things can trigger limerence. Personal challenges, like an illness in the family, can put people in a place emotionally where they might subconsciously be looking for something that can make them happy. Any kind of dis-satisfaction with where your life is at can make you feel like you need ...

“ You meant a lot to me, [her name]...of all the women I’ve met or had a relationship with you were the one I most liked and enjoyed being with. ... and now I will choose to forget you and move on, something which is long overdue on my part. Please know I will not take any further initiative to con...

Hey Limmed, That is a really tough story, and I'm sorry you've had the wrestle through it all. It's never easy. I think that the big thing you need to remind yourself now is that you've done everything that you needed to do. You offered her the relationship. You offered to smooth things over. You to...

My situation continues with no good resolution in sight. Things lately had been going great with my LO.... ...lately he has been way more attentive than usual. WTF. I need to get out of this. And here we have the great paradox that is limerence. Things are are going great. Why? Because you are gett...

wondering has anyone been in a similar dilemma. I am going to go out on a limb and say everyone here has been in a similar dilemma. I would say, if you ultimately want this ride to end, just let it pass you by. If you really feel that you need to at least acknowledge the day, keep it simple. Happy ...

tryingtofindaway wrote: ↑Wed Jul 01, 2020 8:50 pm 30 seconds MAXIMUM before LO's name starts sitting on my chest.

Perfectly put.

were texting daily as well. i gave in and texted him last night and i gave in and texted him this morning too. i might have to do NC because i feel like its taking a tole on me mentally. Try it this way; knowing that it is so very very hard, take it in stages. Resolve not to reach out to him until ...

Actually, I feel awful because my brain keeps thinking she is avoiding me because she is aware of my little secret---that I think about her constantly, that I feel heart broken (for some unknown reason), that I desperately want to talk to her. How would she know my secret. I mean we have exchanged ...