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by David
Sun Mar 10, 2024 3:37 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Treating limerence as an addiction
Replies: 1
Views: 67
Gender:
Great Britain

Treating limerence as an addiction

I came across this in my facebook Carl Jung group. For me it eqally applies to limerence. What do you think? My friend John and I have a profound and intimate experiential understanding of addiction and recovery… A descent into the depths of a Hell few could even begin to imagine, and a spiritual aw...
by David
Sat Feb 24, 2024 7:26 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Could both people have limerence?
Replies: 12
Views: 194
Gender:
Great Britain

Re: Could both people have limerence?

sounds like fantastical thinking to me which equates to limerence. Ultimately we try and justify our decisions based on our feelings. with infatuation/limerence our thinking is not straight. best not to look to another to make us happy as it puts pressure on the other. Reminds me of a book i read ca...
by David
Thu Feb 22, 2024 8:53 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Could both people have limerence?
Replies: 12
Views: 194
Gender:
Great Britain

Re: Could both people have limerence?

L-F wrote: Thu Feb 22, 2024 8:46 pm Men especially will say anything to get sex but don't necessarily want strings attached.
100% -
by David
Thu Feb 22, 2024 8:45 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Could both people have limerence?
Replies: 12
Views: 194
Gender:
Great Britain

Re: Could both people have limerence?

these situations are never easy. best advise my own therapist gave me many years ago was never leave a relationship for another person because we take ourselves with us. Better we do our own work first before seeking a new relationship. Trouble is once we have limerence, our emotions cloud and warp ...
by David
Thu Feb 22, 2024 7:48 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Could both people have limerence?
Replies: 12
Views: 194
Gender:
Great Britain

Re: Could both people have limerence?

yes there can be mutual limerence. For sure its complicated and enmeshed. Better you go in to therapy to look at why you have not spoken with your husband about the marital issues. And if you have, why you are not leaving the marriage before pursuing a new relationship. Pursuing an affair will be li...
by David
Fri Dec 08, 2023 8:01 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: 10 useful graphics for how we respond to trauma
Replies: 2
Views: 2206
Gender:
Great Britain

Re: 10 useful graphics for how we respond to trauma

Philip Larkin is wonderful
by David
Fri Dec 08, 2023 7:59 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: WHY BECOME A MEMBER?
Replies: 0
Views: 4131
Gender:
Great Britain

WHY BECOME A MEMBER?

LF pointed out that guests and registered users that are not members of this forum wont see the full list of active topics which includes the members topics. Ive also just realised that when guests and registered users using the search function wont get posts belonging to members listed. For instanc...
by David
Fri Dec 08, 2023 7:39 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: How many of these 8 anxious attachment styles can you see in yourself?
Replies: 0
Views: 2526
Gender:
Great Britain

How many of these 8 anxious attachment styles can you see in yourself?

Its worth knowledging up on attachment styles as it plays a significant part in how we relate to others. A good book on this topic is called "Attached" My money is on most people with limerence have the worst of both attachment styles - a mix of both anxious and avoidant - these seem to ch...
by David
Fri Dec 08, 2023 7:30 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: 10 useful graphics for how we respond to trauma
Replies: 2
Views: 2206
Gender:
Great Britain

10 useful graphics for how we respond to trauma

My wife came across these on tictoc, not sure who to credit -we both liked them, notice one of them is fantasy and a few others relate to limerence hyperindependence.PNG hypervigilence.PNG defensiveness.PNG defensiveness.PNG fantasy.PNG keeping busy.PNG people pleasing.png perfectionsim.PNG shutting...
by David
Thu Dec 07, 2023 7:06 pm
Forum: Technical issues
Topic: Members area
Replies: 8
Views: 2912
Gender:
Great Britain

Re: Members area

great ideas , not sure how we can add these, let me look

nothing out there that can do this sadly