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I am praying for you Maddie Feb is a long time, no way to bring forward? Those conversations younwoiukd like to have with SO are hard but the hardest part is starting. Try and think how to start and what you want to ask. Sometimes blurt it out, or l as the conversation. Is there someone else you can...

Am sorry you feel depressed Maddie, have you got a date with your therapist? Yes correct on your statement around work , do you have any support at work? Keep him blocked and take each day at school time and see how far you can get with NC. Christmas couldnbe hard so think of some coping strategies ...

Just adding to your thread Maddie and wishing you my strength. I feel your pain through writing and previous shared experiences. I know you are a strong person and also that this illness is nasty, cunning, unforgiving, unrelenting. Your LO has nothing to lose and also no need for boundaries. I don't...

It's so hard Maddie and it's not real, it's real in hurting though. And it hurts a lot.

Agreed on impulse. I can't regulate feelings or reactions or the pain that follows. Stay away is on the way, if you can manage it.

LF I hope you are ok. I am sad for you about your father, I hope you can find some peace with this, and glad you are making the choice. You have invested a lot of time and effort into helping people here and of course that is tiring. Don't underestimate the importance of your effort. I can also see ...

Sorry AK, but yes you need to live your life ans try to reduce the LE effects. Not easy but needed. Your LO seems to be feeling you back in at key monents, that is very hard to escape but you need to think how you can. I felt this with my LO who is a work colleague, I am not sure how you do this wit...

Boundaries? What are they??

I didn't set them. They are important. I like no,7 in the link in particular as this often gets forgotten

AK - I am not sure. It's a mix between being sure she knows I had feelings for her (probably thinks it was a crush) and me thinking she is a kind person. So in this framework I think she would not kbow the damage it could do to me, probably thought it was a bit of a safe tease. Alternatives: I am so...

I agree it sounds like you are doing fine I struggled with when my LO talked about her past - I could not stop thinking that I wanted to be in her past (and present!). When people talk about the past like this it always sounds amazing , fun, exciting (for them) and maybe you feel you jealous as you ...

MetsFan I think we had sone similar experiences wtih our LOs - Very close friends, who care a lot about each other, and a dysfunctional element to the friendship which includes not understanding her motivations for beer behaviours. Perhaps she was just mirroring you, perhaps she was confused, perhap...