limerence.net

Open forum - Post without registering
For the lurkers here who want to participate as anonymous users. You can post or add here without the need to register first.

Site suggestions and improvements
Please add suggestions on how to improve this site, new sections you would like, technical issues etc.

General Chat
Open forum ... what's on your mind? Want to vent or lament about your Limerent/Love Object? This is the ideal place.

Introduce Yourself
Tell us your story. What has been your experience?

Lounge Area
Want get to know each other outside of limerence? Here is an area for jokes, general chat, reflections in general or whatever else floats your boat.

Text - Email - Disclosure Dump
THIS IS A MEMBERS ONLY ACCESS SUB-FORUM AND ONLY VISIBLE AND ACCESSIBLE TO REGISTERED USERS
WAIT - instead of texting, emailing or disclosing to your Limerent/Love Object, why not send it out to the universe by writing it here instead.
ACCESS TO THIS SUB- FORUM IS FOR REGISTERED USERS ONLY

Anything to do with your LO
THIS IS A MEMBERS ONLY ACCESS SUB-FORUM AND ONLY VISIBLE AND ACCESSIBLE TO REGISTERED USERS
For those that want to lust, lament, rant or anything else that is specifically related to their LO.

Dream Dump
THIS IS A MEMBERS ONLY ACCESS SUB-FORUM AND ONLY VISIBLE AND ACCESSIBLE TO REGISTERED USERS
What is says on the tin.

Journal Section
THIS IS A MEMBERS ONLY ACCESS SUB-FORUM AND ONLY VISIBLE AND ACCESSIBLE TO REGISTERED USERS
A place to keep a running dialogue about your journey through limerence (and life).

Parental / FOO Issues
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A place to express your feelings about your parents / family of origin (FOO). Here you can write about your feelings towards parents or others that have been instrumental in your upbringing.

Polls and Quizzes
Polls on anything related to anything. Why not create your own poll?

What worked for me
A section to post what worked for you in your healing, recovery and growth. Includes some useful stickies from more experienced members of this forum.

Moving on
Discussion about the way back.

Success Stories and long term updates
Perhaps there is light at the end of the tunnel. Or maybe life is never the same after limerence. Read how others have coped with limerence in the longer term. Please feel free to post your own accounts of journeying through limerence.

What I learned from my LE/LO
What did you learn from your expereince of limerence? How did you change? how did you grow? What were the upsides and downsides?

Dating and relationships after limerence
A place to help from being limerent again and how to cope with limerence in future relationships.

Limerence.net book club
Book recommendations and book reviews. Please add reviews of any books you found helpful during your limerence recovery.

Alternative Perspectives of Limerence
For some, limerence isn't about suffering. For others, they do not see limerence as akin to an addiction. Others do not see limerence as originating in childhood from poor parenting and dysfunctional attachments.

Here is a place to share different beliefs as well as share your own POV.

Tips, Ideas, General Chat
How to improve a long term relationship and keep it alive, healthy and growing. Just like tending a garden.

Help - my partner is impacted.
Find support here if your partner is in limerence, having an affair or love addicted.

Can we be Friends with our Limerent/Love Objects's?
A common and understandable desire, can it work?

Going No Contact
A tough thing to do - the pros and cons

Limerent / Infatuated whilst in a Long Term Relationship
For those married or in a Long Term Relationship and struggling with limerence.

To disclose or Not?
Does disclosure to our Limerent/Love Object help?

Bask in your limerence here
For those not quite ready to start looking at their limerence as a condition that needs working on.
ACCESS TO THIS SUB-FORUM IS FOR REGISTERED USERS ONLY

Children and Parenting
A section on how we were parented and how we parent our own children (where relevant). It is likely that much of the origins of our Limerence start in childhood, this is an important sub-forum.

Addictions
Discussion related to all forms of addictions.

Attachment issues
It seems limerence and other addictions stems from early life attachment wounds.

Co-dependency
A common theme appearing on these forums is co-dependency.

Narcissists and Narcissism
Discuss your experiences about narcissism and relationships with narcissists here.

Talking therapies and non talking treatments
Talk therapy can help but at times less cognitive treatments are required. Anything related to ANY form of therapy goes here.

Sexual issues
Anything here related to matters sexual

Spirituality
For many, limerence represents a spiritual crisis or awakening. Read other's experiences here.