A video on should i disclose my feelings of limerence to my LO?
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It's been 1.5 years since I had any contact w my LO (mutual decision). Things are much better for me, but it still comes back to haunt me, even make me cry at times.
Key for me after going NC: 1) Attending Obsessive Compulsive Anonymous 12-step group meetings weekly, 2) attending meetings @ a recovery center for ppl recovering from substance abuse & mental illness, 3) learning & regularly practicing mindfulness meditation, 4) escaping a BAD marriage that contributed to chronic limerence, and 5) Taking VERY good care of my physical & psychiatric help & staying on meds.
Blessings to any limerent in recovery.
Although I can't seem to download video, I was somewhat close to telling my LO ( a coworker I've worked with successfully for years) that I am attracted to her, even though logically this would make ZERO sense because I seem to pick women who are emotionally unavailable. Ready to put on brakes now, thanks to you and this awesome site! Blessings to you too!
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